Topic: ALERT: LADIES, IF YOUR GUY EVER DOES THESE 4 THINGS, DON’T MARRY HIM EVER OR ELSE … >>>

The concept that a loving relationship between partners should be
all about love and respect should never be forgotten. There are
an abundance of truly healthy relationships where both partners
communicate, show respect and affection, and work hard to keep
the relationship in good-standing.
Unfortunately, there are also an abundance of relationships that
look nothing like the aforementioned relationship. Even more
distressing is that many of these destructive relationships evolved
despite early signs of dysfunction. For women, these signs
should be deal breakers that scream “Don’t Marry Him!”. The
four biggest deal breaker should be:

Temper and Violence – Violence doesn’t have to
become physical to set off alarms. If a man is prone to
excessive verbal outbursts and physical actions such as
destroying property, it might be nothing more than a matter of
time before that violence is turned towards his partner in the
form of physical abuse. Worse of all, temper and violence tend
to escalate and can’t be easily fixed without counseling.
Infidelity – “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. Once a
person has shown the willingness to cross the line, that
willingness will always exist. If your man has a history of
infidelity in prior relationships or cheats early within the existing
one, the necessary love and respect are not present and it is
only going to get worse. Relationships can only grow if people
take them one at a time.
Addiction – Drug abuse, alcoholism, sex addiction and
compulsive gambling are all highly destructive behavioral
problems that tend to take down anything in its path. Far too
many women feel compelled to “save” the addict from himself.
The reality is that most addicts need intensive counseling and
support just to gain and ounce of abstinence and, women are
ill-prepared to “fix” a sick addict.
Possessive Behavior – If a man exhibits signs of
extreme jealousy and ownership over his partner, he is most
likely suffering from issues of low self-esteem and little
confidence. A mentally healthy man understands a woman’s need
for social interaction and won’t get in the way. Unfortunately,
possessive behavior often leads to rage and violence.
If your partner exhibits any of these signs, your best option is
to move on and find the healthy relationship you deserve. Don’t
fall victim to your need to nurture and rescue a damaged man.
The right man will be the one who has already focused on his
issues to become the man you really want and need.